A lot of Christian advice is baptized self-reliance. Be strong. Push through. Do not be a burden. Then the body fails, or grief sits on the chest, or the mind frays, and the slogans have nothing left to say. We treat weakness as a spiritual embarrassment instead of the place God promised to meet us. The idol is competence: I will trust Jesus after I can stand on my own.
Isaiah says the Lord carries Jacob into old age and gray hair, and that same Lord has not become someone who drops the people Christ redeemed. "I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save." Paul begged for his thorn to leave and heard a better sentence than relief on demand: my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. The gospel is not God waiting until you can hold your own life. The gospel is Christ bearing what you cannot, all the way to a cross, and still bearing you now.
Bring Him the day you cannot muscle through. If you boast, boast in weakness — not because weakness is holy by itself, but because it kills the lie that you are your own savior. He carries. You do not have to pretend you are the strong one in the room.
Isaiah 46:4 (ESV): "Even to your old age I am he, and to gray hairs I will carry you. I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save."
2 Corinthians 12:9 (ESV): "But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me."